There are plenty of things to do on your wedding day that will make your day a success. I’m sure that your Pinterest boards are just full of beautiful and creative ideas that will make your wedding day as special as ever. That said, there are also a few things that you may not want to do or rather shouldn’t on your wedding day! Today we’re talking about those “don’t” items as they are just as important as the ones you do decide to incorporate.
- Don’t control everything.
We all want our wedding days to be perfect, but it’s important to remember that you don’t need to do it all! Don’t try to manage everything and everyone. Please, please, please remember that your big day deserves a present mind and you can’t do it all. By hiring a wedding planner or trusted leader, you can let go and enjoy your day without having to worry about all of the details you’ve worked so hard to pull together.
- Don’t forget your timelines!
Your wedding planner will probably go over this, but it’s incredibly important to go over your final timelines. Your planner will meet with you prior to your wedding day and show you the day’s events. To ensure everything goes smoothly, they will walk you through all of the details and make sure that you are happy with what the day looks like. Reviewing the schedule can help you visualize how your day will flow. At your rehearsal, this final timeline can be shared with your wedding party as well as sharing their other important roles in your wedding to make sure everyone is on the same page.
- Don’t take everything on.
Another very important don’t is too make sure you’re not taking on everything. Don’t hesitate to manage and delegate with your family and friends. It’s what your bridesmaids are there for! Your wedding party is meant to be by your side to help with odds and ends, keep everyone organized, and ensure you have a stress-free and wonderful day with your new spouse.
- Don’t lose your vision.
I’ve mentioned it before, but I feel it’s important enough to mention again. Please be sure to stay in the present. This day happens one time and it goes by so quickly. Instead of worrying and wondering about all of the details going perfectly, you should focus on soaking in the precious little moments with your friends and family and your new partner. This is your day and you can only experience it to the fullest if you let yourself.
- Avoid the stress and drama.
Along the lines of staying present, I do want to mention another thing. Sometimes wedding days can bring with them a little bit of stress or undue drama. The best advice I can give you is to take it in stride and not give it the attention it (or they) crave. Having friends and family in the same room can be a little stressful, but it’s important to remember that this is your day and to not let the small things interrupt your bliss.
I hope these “don’ts” help put into perspective what really matters on your upcoming day. While the details are certainly important, not stressing about them is as equally important and necessary for a successful and beautiful memory for years to come.
If you need help managing those fine details and/or you’d like to not have to worry about the stress of it all, I can help! Call me today to talk weddings and figure out how best we can work together. I look forward to it!
Lexi
All images by tPoz Photography.
Venue: Baltimore Museum of Industry
